Does my wife have any right to blame me for this?

Do you even love your wife??? it does not sound like it, and if you ask me yes it is your fault! by the way women are NOT servant! We are people as well do not take advantage of her. this ( I explained to her that I could not live with an unemployed dead beat... I don't want to get divorced or anything, I just think that she should move out with her parents until she gets another job. I refuse to waste my savings supporting an unemployed loafer... I also explained to her, that she is still welcome to come over to clean the place up, cook dinner, etc...) tells me that you don't love your wife at all!